The outside temperature may still be close to freezing, but the sun is now shining and the birds and the bees seem to know that spring is coming.
So as February suddenly stops and gives way to March, I sense that love is in the air!
I do hope you have experienced the bliss of falling in love at least once in your life. Falling in love is part of the package of being a human being. When we are in love, we can focus exclusively on our loved one with great intensity. In that moment when we join with our beloved, we feel truly alive. When we gaze into the eyes of the one whom we love, the rest of the world seems to disappear for a while. Just go to a busy airport and watch two lovers saying goodbye or hello –totally oblivious to the tension and chaos all around them.
But I have to tell you that you do not have to meet the man or woman of your dreams to fall in love. If you train your mind to focus intensely on any object, you can then feel as though you are joining with it, and so you can fall in love with it! You can certainly fall in love with a tree in this way, or a flower, or a piece of music. You simply have to open your heart and focus intensely on something until you merge with it.
Love touches our hearts and stimulates them to open up like flowers in bright sunshine. So please do not wait for your soul mate to come along to be in love. Fall in love every day of your life. Love is everywhere. Love is in the air that we breathe. You just have to learn how to tune into its beautiful energy. When you really know that love is in the air, you will no longer need to grab hold of someone and hold them close to you to experience love.
But to experience this love in the air, we have to meet certain conditions. The thinking brain cannot really love. It can only strongly desire someone, or something, and then believe that this is love. So we need to learn how to rise above our thinking mind into a higher level of consciousness, if we truly long to tune into the energy of love on a daily basis.
When my students perform Infinite Tai Chi, this actually helps them to dwell in love energy for a while, because they focus their mind on their movements in a relaxed, but powerful way They join their mind and body together and raise their vibrations up to the level of love energy. When an advanced student performs Infinite Tai Chi with supreme focus, the whole external world and even their thoughts can disappear for a while, as they merge with love and light So Infinite Tai Chi is not really slow, gentle movement. It is a spiritual art. It is movement ‘in love’ or, as we have subtitled it, ‘Movement in the Light’.
When our mind, body and emotions flow together in perfect harmony, we can get in touch with a universal life force that assists us to feel truly alive in the present moment. Moreover, once we are flowing harmoniously with life, we will inevitably attract more love into our lives. But this love is not the same thing as sexual chemistry, or physical desire that comes and goes. True love has a permanent, unchanging aspect to it. This true love never comes or goes. It is only our awareness of it that changes.
I am determined to be in love each and every moment of my life. But I have to tell you that this is ‘work in progress!’
Most human beings still love on another in a very possessive way, because they become fearfully attached to the object of their affections. If their partner flirts with someone at a party, for example, they inevitably feel horribly jealous. Some people even become very attached to possessions that they ‘love’, such as their designer watch. They say to themselves ‘This is my beautiful watch’ and then they are devastated when somebody steals it.
If you need to possess someone to feel love and security, you are in big trouble, because you do not even possess your own body, let alone someone else’s body. You just lease your body from Mother Earth for a while. You should certainly do your best to look after your physical body whilst you have one, but if you become too attached to it, you will suffer sooner or later, as your body weakens and then dies.
If you long for lasting freedom and happiness, you need to understand that needy attachments are the opposite of true love and can never bring us the lasting satisfaction that we seek.
When we keep thinking to ourselves that we want something, we are basically confirming our lack. If you want more love in your life, you are confirming that you are lacking in love, or wholeness. But all human beings feel this lack! Yet the more you raise your vibrations and consciousness up to the level of love energy, the more you can transcend this fundamental human problem.
Your personality-self has a thousand and one desires to pursue. Your personality-self can even try to imprison someone and call it love. But your soul, or core being, only wants to dwell in true love and freedom.
So please make a real commitment to live your life in love from this day forth. Only you can determine that from now on you are going to do everything in your power to live your life in love. Can your mother do this for you? Of course she can’t! No one else can lead your life for you, and so your happiness is 100 per cent your responsibility.
If you are happy, if you are in love, the whole world will become a happier place thanks to you. If on the other hand, you are determined to be fearful and miserable for the rest of your life, no one will benefit, not even a cat or a dog! So please never assume that pursuing love and happiness is a selfish goal. Happy individuals who are ‘in love’ are a true blessing to the whole world.
To experience love energy, we have to raise our vibrations way above the average level of human consciousness. We have to raise our vibrations up to the level of love, which is 500 on Dr David Hawkins calibration chart. Given that, according to Hawkins, the majority of human beings’ average calibration is still less than 200, you can see that this is quite a challenge, but one that a number of my long-term students have now achieved.
However, you will certainly need to take up some kind of regular spiritual practice to raise your vibration up above 499. Stephen Hawkins, for example has a brilliant mind, but he is a scientist, not a spiritual practitioner, and so he is convinced that a loving God does not exist, because science cannot find any proof of His existence. We actually need to have a subjective experience of God’s Love pouring down on us to know that God exists. I do not believe in God. I know God, because I have gone beyond my thinking, intellectual mind to experience Him directly with my whole being.
Unfortunately, most people in our world are living loveless lives. They are still imploding with fear and anger because of their low level of consciousness. Tensing up against the world is very normal, but when we tense up like this, we inevitably close our hearts, and then we experience living in fear, rather than love. The majority of human beings live all their lives in self-centred fear and lack, and so we have far more thieves than Saints. Saints love all living creatures unconditionally. But this is definitely ‘the road less travelled’.
If you long to live your life in love, please practise flowing harmoniously with life instead of tensing up against it. Keep raising your consciousness up to ever higher levels, until you really love life and can live your life without constant anxiety and stress, because you are living in love rather than fear.
When you are dwelling in true love, you can just share this love with others, without any of the pushing and pulling that inevitably accompanies conditional, human love. As we awake spiritually, we should notice that we are no longer aiming to go out and grab more love into our lives. We are aiming to be love. We are committing ourselves to rediscovering our true identity and to knowing that our true-selves are all made of love and nothing but love.